Its either lease a new car (Mazda, Honda, Toyota, or Nissan), or finance a used Honda. She could finance a new Accord, but it doesn't float her boat. If anything we'd find a pre-MMC Accord, the new ones look ugly to her. (I feel the same).
The new CR-V she loves, but we haven't found one used that wasn't previously wrecked, and the dealers won't move on the price.