I would agree that Hondas dealers over all suck. I feel very lucky to have a top notch dealer in both sales and service. And believe me. Ive spent more time at my dealer and a 2nd dealer than I ever wanted to with my Civic. And the Accord has had a few minor issues also.
But the fact still remains. Its more than likely a alignment issue. Atleast get it on a machine to see how it is right now. It will either be in spec or out or spec. If in spec. Dump the car! If out of spec. Get her lined up and enjoy.
I had to fight with Honda over a ECU in my Civic. It got nasty. But in the end I got a new ECU and my mpg back. But it did sour me.
And I am looking forward to dealers wanting to deal on the 1 series in late 2009 or 2010. BMW's do have there own way behind the wheel.....